謹記這條金科玉律: 你要別人怎麼聽你說話,就要怎麼聽別人說話. 找你說話的人需要某樣東西,可能需要被肯定,情感的支持,客觀的意見,或可能只想分享某個經驗的苦與樂.這些基本上都是人性的需求,你遲早也會有這些需求.
Remember the Golden Rule: listen to other people in the way that you would like them to listen to you. The reason they would like to speak to you is because they needed something from you, maybe they need some agreement from you, some kind of support, maybe an objective opinion, or even just want to share the sweetness and bitterness of something that they've went through. And these are needs of humanity, and you'll have these needs as well.