事實上，指責別人的人，他心裡也在強烈的喜愛美女，但卻不敢向整個文化挑戰，所以他不敢承認，更不敢講出來，這就是我們的醬缸文化(pickling pot)。我從小所受的苦難，當然對我有很大的影響，但對我也有很大的幫助，使我不斷的思考這些苦難發生的第一原因。發現其中有一種思想是有流弊的(the heinous tradition)，那就是：「以其人之道，還治其人之身」，這是一種婆媳文化，而婆媳文化是一種罪惡循環的文化，你纏我的足，我就纏下一代的足。漩渦式的(whirlpool-like effect)墬落力量，需要西方文化裡的自由、平等、人權，前來拯救，才能使我們跳出漩渦。
- 1 0 年前最佳解答
As a matter of fact, he who censures others loves beauty intensely. But he dares not challenge the whole culture so he was afraid of admitting and uttering.
This was just our pickling pot. The suffering I had when I was a child had a great influence on me. But it was also a great help which makes me think the chief reason why these distress happened. Then I found the heinous tradition, “To pay a person with his own way.” This was the civilization of wife and mother-in-law, which was a vicious circle civilization. If you bind my feet, I will bind the next generation’s feet.
The whirlpool-like effect needs the liberty, equal, human rights from western culture to save us jump out of the whirlpool.參考資料： 慧娟老師，版權所有，請勿抄襲^O^
- 1 0 年前
Blame the other people's person in fact, his heart also the fancy beauty in mightiness, but dare not toward the whole cultural challenge, so he dares not acknowledgement, daring not more to speak out, this is our sauce vat culture(pickling pot).The distress that I was subjected to since the childhood, certainly had very great influence to me, but also had a very great help to me, made my continuous thinking these distress occurrences the first reason.The detection has a kind of thought to have corrupt practice among them, that BE:"With its person's way, also cure its person's body", this is a kind of old woman daughter-in-law's culture, and the old woman daughter-in-law's culture is a kind of culture of crime circulation, you worry my foot, I tie up the foot of the next generation.The whirlpool type falls to fall strength, needing the freedom in the western cultural, equal, human rights, come salvation, can make us jump out whirlpool. 這樣ok嗎?