he loves me or not?!
the second day we came back from the second Bali trip he texted me said "let's stop at here". we were long distance lovers,i gave him all i have but seems like there was a gap between us(he is 34,i am 24,10yrs different)i thought he older than me supposed take care of me ,pay a lot of attentions on me ,treat me like his babe,but i am always the 1 who promised most,when i first know him, i thought it was the time to unlock my heart to accept the fate,nomatter how hard i should not give up ,coz it was the fate lead us 2gether...........so heartaching to writing all this.....
when we were at Bali,while i am sleeping, he talked to his "colleague"on the phone ,did not heared what they said but the his tone was so flirtatous, i told mylself to be deaf and dumbed abt this,now the ending is here, i dun ask more,i can accpet this juz wanna know did he ever loved me ?!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you! to "住在國外20年的Kim"~
I had nightmares almost every nights,cried in the dreams several times, repeated the sad goodbye in those dreams,saw him leaving with my heartaching over and over again....
To be frankly,i am kinda of gave up already, i juz need time to let himgo....he used to be my everything,probably he even knew.....i will be fine someday, i will be back to shinning penny like i used to be.....well~at this weekend we will meet again,i guess it will be our last meet.
i did not tell hime that i quit my job already,already,r,i will leave this city and plan to get married at this year,accept somebody who is loving u more than u r giving is a blessed story to begin ....Wish u have sweet love thank you Kim!
- KimLv 51 0 年前最佳解答
I am sure he loved you. But as you said this is a long distance relationship which to most people is very hard to maintain in the first place. I don't see the age gap being a real issue here, but more on the long distance that's drifting you two apart.
Since the guy had call the shots already, and I am pretty sure he had made up his mind before the Bali trip, therefore making this trip more or less like a farewell trip for your relationship. Its probably wise for you to take a break from this as well, cool down and serious think about where to go from here onwards. Whether or not you can overcome the challenge of time (age) and space (distance) and if he is worth all that.
It all depends on what you want from this relationship. Regardless what you choose, wish you all the best! Remember, every cloud has a silver lining.
*though you filed your concern in the wrong category, I still hope to have ease your problem, even if its only a tiny bit.
2008-06-18 10:40:37 補充：
Glad to know that you have made up your mind with your future. My advise is not to see him this weekend. After all, you don't want other emotions to bother you and contemplate your decision (if it is final already).
2008-06-18 10:40:58 補充：
You deserved a break. Remember, it may seem to be an end to a relationship but it is also a new beginning to your new journey. God bless you.參考資料： 住在國外20年的我
- 嚴選名膜 有限公司Lv 51 0 年前
I think .......he maybe loved u ,but maybe something broblems that u don't know to bother him!參考資料： KRIS
- 1 0 年前