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(20點)我有一小篇短短的心得,煩惱急著要翻成英文,請幫忙

麻煩請將以下翻成英文,謝謝!

許多人或多或少會缺乏自信,但是這自信並非由擁有外在條件與價值所賦予的,或是他人對自己的肯定與讚賞,而是內心對自我的肯定,其實當內在的信心俱足,再來看待自己的一切,會發現自己的一切都是值得肯定的,只要看待自我的心念轉變,將會發現自己美好的一面。

記得有這麼一首兒歌「大象大象,你的鼻子怎麼這麼長?媽媽說鼻子長才是漂亮」,其實,我們往往習慣性的看自己負向的缺點,但是,卻萬萬沒有想到-這一向被我們視為負向的一面,有可能就是自己所擁有的特色與長處,卻因自己自卑或負面的心念,而認為是不好的一面,因此,自我肯定是相當重要的。即便是缺陷,亦可培養自己的特長,多注意自己的優點,從中肯定自己,建立信心。

相對而言,世界上沒有人完美無缺,每個人都優缺點並俱,但是選擇以缺點或優點看待自己,衍生出的人生態度便天差地別。如果能將看待缺點而苦惱的心念轉而發掘自己的優點,進而加以發揮,信心俱足了,心情也跟著轉變,這是人生積極的態度。這種明亮的氣氛感染周圍的人,自己便成為一個擁有自我的發光體。

當自己對自己有了信心,而不只是由別人來認同讚賞,其所散發出的光采,也更容易受到他人的肯定。而同樣的,我們也應當學著欣賞他人的優點,多以稱讚溫暖對方,尤其是在他人受挫的時候,更能藉此讓他人自我肯定。

而我們也不要有羨慕別人或比較的心態。也許,這是大多數人的經驗,父母或是長輩們總會將我們與其他孩子比較,其實這是錯誤的觀念,所謂「天生我材必有用」,每個人都是上帝的一塊寶,應當好好珍惜自己,接納自己,肯定自己,發掘並發揮自己的特色與所長,活出屬於自己的一片天空。

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  • 1 0 年前
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    因為太長了 分兩段

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    Many people more or less will lack self-confidently, but this self-confident by will have by no means that perhaps other people who the external condition and the value will entrust with to own affirmation and appreciation, but will be the innermost feelings to the self-affirmation, actually will work as the intrinsic confidence all foot, again regards own all, will discover that own all will be are worth affirmative, so long as will regard the self-intention transformation, will discover oneself happy one side. Remembered that has such a nursery song “the elephant elephant, is your nose how such long? Mother said that the nose long is attractive”, actually, we often routine look at the negative shortcoming, but, actually absolutely had not thought that - this always regards as negative one side by us, has characteristic which and strong point the possibility has, because actually feel inferior or the negative intention, but thought that is not good one side, therefore, the self is quite important. Even if is the flaw, may also raise own special skill, pays attention to own merit, from definitely, establishes the confidence. Relatively speaking, in the world nobody is perfect, each people good and bad points and all,

    2008-12-05 22:58:40 補充:

    but chooses by the shortcoming or the merit regards itself, grows the attitude towards life then day badly leaves. If can regard the shortcoming, but the worried intention transfers excavates own merit, then

    2008-12-05 22:59:59 補充:

    displays, confidence Ju Zu, the mood with was also transforming, this is the life positive manner. Periphery this bright atmosphere infection's person, oneself then become one to have

    2008-12-05 23:00:31 補充:

    the self-luminophor. When had the confidence to oneself, not only but approves the appreciation by others, its sends out brilliance, also easier to receive other people's affirmation. But same, we must study are

    2008-12-05 23:00:44 補充:

    appreciating other people's merit, many commends the warm opposite party, particularly suffers setbacks in other people, can take advantage of this lets other people self. But we do not have envy others or the comparison point of view. Perhaps, this is most people's experience, the

    2008-12-05 23:01:35 補充:

    parents perhaps the elders would us to compare with other children, actually this is the wrong idea, so-called “the inborn my material must be useful”, each people are a God's treasure, must treasure itself

    2008-12-05 23:01:36 補充:

    parents perhaps the elders would us to compare with other children, actually this is the wrong idea, so-called “the inborn my material must be useful”, each people are a God's treasure, must treasure itself

    2008-12-05 23:01:40 補充:

    well, admits itself, definitely, excavate and displays their characteristic and manager, lives belongs to own sky.

    2008-12-05 23:02:40 補充:

    因為有限制

    我分很多段 @@

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  • 1 0 年前

    Many people will be more or less a lack of self-confidence, self-confidence but it does not have the external conditions and the value conferred by, or on other people's recognition and appreciation of their own, but the heart of self-affirmation, in fact, when all confidence in the inherent Enough, then look at everything, you will find that everything is worthy of recognition, as long look at the mind of self-transformation, will find themselves a better side.

    I remember a Children have such a "elephant elephant, your nose, how long? Mother said that long nose is beautiful", in fact, we often look at the habits of their own shortcomings to the negative, however, has never imagined -- We have always been regarded as negative side, there is likely to have their own characteristics and strengths, because of their low self-esteem or a negative mind, and that is not good side, self-assurance is very important. Even defects can also develop their own expertise, and more attention to their own advantages, which are assured of their own, confidence-building.

    2008-12-05 23:21:32 補充:

    直接給你我翻譯好的!

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    自己去看ㄅ

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