語言學習~有關英文文法問題

請問誰可以為我解釋以下的句子

She thought my not inviting her to my party was a deliberate insult

為何thought 後面是接所有格 my?

我可以這樣寫嗎

she thought that it was a deliberate insult because I didn't invite her to my party.
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