在網路上認識的外國男生 他是否認真的? (15點)

這一陣子在網路上認識了一個英國26歲的男生

他現在很努力的念書 因為他想要當醫生

當然就是因為這樣,他常常都待在家裡,一個人住 有養貓 相對的他覺得孤單

我們沒有很常聊天,因為時差的關係 而我也要準備考試 所以只有在網路上遇到時會聊天

他有跟我聊過說雖然他在他班上成績雖然是第一名 可是他很孤單

剛好他在網路上遇到了我,很快地,他就說他很喜歡我

我知道外國人思想都比較開放,所以我也不清楚他們為什麼可以很快的就說喜歡一個人

我的想法是喜歡或是愛或是交往 都是相處過後而產生的

我有問過說他為什麼沒交女朋友

他回我 :

just to meet the right girl

i am busy with study also i gess

and i dont like to drink

so i dont realy get a chances

其實他給我的感覺不像是我在網路上遇到的其他外國男生一樣輕浮

後來我有問他為什麼他想當醫生,他說他喜歡幫助人,雖然辛苦但是他很樂意這樣做

我還有問他說他會參加party嗎之類的

他回我:

yes sumtimes we do

but i dont realy injoy that much

young said that part are just to make people feel vain

young is a phycoligist

some people need that to make them self feel import

mostly people that are vain amnd what to be loved by evyone

i just want to be loved by one

後來我就有問他說所以你希望可以出現一個對的人嗎?

他說:

i want to have a girl that is not obseed with how she looks or how poplour she is

i want someone who can work as team ,

maybe help with cooking and give me suport

後來他還跟我說:

when i saw your photo

i thin your my type

but you did tell me i was kinda old lol

so maybe i am not your type

但其實那時候我以為他是29歲,所以我才覺得他大我太多,結果是他自己打錯= =

這個誤會過了一段時間後才解開

之後我們有用視訊聊天,他也一直稱讚我很漂亮

他說他學校有個雕刻的作業,希望我可以傳一些照片給他,他想把我當model來當作業

後來我覺得ok 所以我就答應了

之後他說:

lol can i tell you then?

我:tell me what?

promis to belive me?

我:i believe you

i think your the most beautiful thing i have ever seen

我:you are kidding

i swear on my life . just please belive me

之後他有跟我說

他很確定他對我有感覺

然後說:

i think that your the lovely most beautiful girl i have see in my hole life

if you belive not not belive it is stil true

look, i understand if you dont feel the same and i understand if you think i am rushing , but i really feel that i have feeling for you.

i know thats hard to exept and hard to belive, but its true.

後來他問我喜不喜歡日本動畫,我說我喜歡

他就有跟我分享他家裡有收藏的一些宮崎駿的電影

還有問我喜不喜歡心理學 ,我說我喜歡

他也分享了一些書和佛洛依德給我

他也跟我說他很喜歡亞洲的食物 像是 咖理和壽司之類的

總之就是一些嗜好等等

之後他說他希望可以到亞洲教英文

不過我跟他說你可以來不過你先完成你想當醫生的夢想之後再來 不然一切都白費了

他也希望我可以教他中文,也想學台語之類

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一直到昨天

有聊到說他只有和一個他之前喜歡的女生sex過,可是那女生傷害了他

後來他說:i just want you to know that i think about love before sex that what i want you to know

之後他問我說我喜歡他嗎? 我說像朋友那樣的喜歡

他:do you think ever more than a friend

我:i really don't know. because we just chat via the internet ,who know?

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他:but if i made the effort. i want you ,but i understand

之後中間他有說雖然我沒有對他像他對我一樣的感覺,但是沒關系

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他:if i think about you , i see somthing amazing , i think this girl is sso wonderful and beautiful , she does not seam to relise how beautiful she is or how smart and intresting she is , she is not so confadent , but i like this , your modest , and you are a rare girl to have such a wonderful hart

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i feel happy that you came into my life , it was like a wonderful light that light up my dark cave just for a short time and that is enouth to make me happy just just talk

and what makes you most amazing , you realy have no idear the kinde of hope you give to a guy like me

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even if the hope is loe. i wisjh you can see your self from my hart and my eyes

true 100% . its a odd felling you give me

i think that sometimes , that people we meet in life have after such a short time have a profound efect on us , i can only think that i loved you in a past life

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i know the effect i have on you is not the same ,,but thats not a problem

but the onlything that would be a problem is if you thought this was not true

then i feel i would feel pain

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以上的英文都是他跟我說的

各位了解外國人的大大,謝謝你們耐心的看完(我知道這真的很多)

因為我是不太容易相信一個人的人,所以我也不知道他到底是否是認真的..???

畢竟我知道外國人思想很開放,講話都很直接,不像台灣的男生含蓄

直接雖然很好,但同時也會有些是否是真的之類的疑問..

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TO:*JjAaNnEe*

I don't have any feelings for him.

i just want to know "is he really serious?"

i want to come up with a good way to refuse him. but i still want to make friend with him

just this

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TO:*JjAaNnEe*

i like your answer :)

now, i know what i can do !

thank you >

4 個解答

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  • 8 年前
    最佳解答

    I have read it all

    I think at first u try to make friends with foreigners is bcz of curiosity

    but then , u r falling in love by his appearance, his thought, his different culture, his personailies...etc.

    I think the question is not " Is he really into me ?"

    more like/// what should I do?

    bcz i think u already faal for him a bit

    i asked for help just to stop urself to fall entirely.

    If you dont feel the same way,

    I dont think u even care whether he likes u or not.

    So maybe the more important question is...

    What if I accept him?

    I confess that i have the same feeling for him.

    What kind of situation we will face?

    If that happens, and u face ur true question and be serious abt it.

    Let me ask u something.

    1.He is still a student, medical school student. How long will he finish his study? Even if he finished, how long is his internship program?

    After all that effort , How old are u ? Do u think it's worthy to wait him?

    2. Does he have any plan of living aboard for certain years with u?

    (U can't go to UK. it's not safe and no gurantee for u...)

    2013-03-12 17:29:52 補充:

    mmmm I get it.

    I think you can just be honest with him.

    If he keeps telling you that he adores you a lot.

    You could just tell him, you don't feel like to fall in love with anyone right now.

    You just want to focus on work/ study for yourself.

    And he should do the same.

    2013-03-12 17:38:29 補充:

    You can give him mentally support, so can he.

    However, just as a friend.

    Besides, you could also reduce the times of skype / chatting (face to face)

    ......

    once a man falls for you, it's hard to reject him...

    no matter is he a foreigner or not

    but you can just be pen pal with him

  • 5 年前

    如果是真的 不會在網路上 能考上醫生的家境都不錯 不論外國國內

  • 8 年前

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  • 銘棋
    Lv 5
    8 年前

    網路上很多事有真的也有假的,包括網友也是

    我相信外國人喜歡你是真的,但那又如何?

    因為他喜歡你,所以他叫你做什麼你就乖乖去做嗎?

    重點是你有沒有喜歡對方?你要用什麼方式去相信對方?

    發球權是在你手上,而不是別人

    通常越難相信別人的人,也是最容易上當的人

    保持警覺保護好自己是網路時代必備的常識

    到底結果如何?

    讓我們繼續看下去…

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