在網路上認識的外國男生 他是否認真的? (15點)
當然就是因為這樣,他常常都待在家裡,一個人住 有養貓 相對的他覺得孤單
我們沒有很常聊天,因為時差的關係 而我也要準備考試 所以只有在網路上遇到時會聊天
just to meet the right girl
i am busy with study also i gess
and i dont like to drink
so i dont realy get a chances
yes sumtimes we do
but i dont realy injoy that much
young said that part are just to make people feel vain
young is a phycoligist
some people need that to make them self feel import
mostly people that are vain amnd what to be loved by evyone
i just want to be loved by one
i want to have a girl that is not obseed with how she looks or how poplour she is
i want someone who can work as team ,
maybe help with cooking and give me suport
when i saw your photo
i thin your my type
but you did tell me i was kinda old lol
so maybe i am not your type
lol can i tell you then?
我:tell me what?
promis to belive me?
我:i believe you
i think your the most beautiful thing i have ever seen
我:you are kidding
i swear on my life . just please belive me
i think that your the lovely most beautiful girl i have see in my hole life
if you belive not not belive it is stil true
look, i understand if you dont feel the same and i understand if you think i am rushing , but i really feel that i have feeling for you.
i know thats hard to exept and hard to belive, but its true.
他也跟我說他很喜歡亞洲的食物 像是 咖理和壽司之類的
後來他說:i just want you to know that i think about love before sex that what i want you to know
他:do you think ever more than a friend
我:i really don't know. because we just chat via the internet ,who know?
他:but if i made the effort. i want you ,but i understand
他:if i think about you , i see somthing amazing , i think this girl is sso wonderful and beautiful , she does not seam to relise how beautiful she is or how smart and intresting she is , she is not so confadent , but i like this , your modest , and you are a rare girl to have such a wonderful hart
i feel happy that you came into my life , it was like a wonderful light that light up my dark cave just for a short time and that is enouth to make me happy just just talk
and what makes you most amazing , you realy have no idear the kinde of hope you give to a guy like me
even if the hope is loe. i wisjh you can see your self from my hart and my eyes
true 100% . its a odd felling you give me
i think that sometimes , that people we meet in life have after such a short time have a profound efect on us , i can only think that i loved you in a past life
i know the effect i have on you is not the same ,,but thats not a problem
but the onlything that would be a problem is if you thought this was not true
then i feel i would feel pain
I don't have any feelings for him.
i just want to know "is he really serious?"
i want to come up with a good way to refuse him. but i still want to make friend with him
i like your answer :)
now, i know what i can do !
thank you >
- 8 年前最佳解答
I have read it all
I think at first u try to make friends with foreigners is bcz of curiosity
but then , u r falling in love by his appearance, his thought, his different culture, his personailies...etc.
I think the question is not " Is he really into me ?"
more like/// what should I do?
bcz i think u already faal for him a bit
i asked for help just to stop urself to fall entirely.
If you dont feel the same way,
I dont think u even care whether he likes u or not.
So maybe the more important question is...
What if I accept him?
I confess that i have the same feeling for him.
What kind of situation we will face?
If that happens, and u face ur true question and be serious abt it.
Let me ask u something.
1.He is still a student, medical school student. How long will he finish his study? Even if he finished, how long is his internship program?
After all that effort , How old are u ? Do u think it's worthy to wait him?
2. Does he have any plan of living aboard for certain years with u?
(U can't go to UK. it's not safe and no gurantee for u...)
2013-03-12 17:29:52 補充：
mmmm I get it.
I think you can just be honest with him.
If he keeps telling you that he adores you a lot.
You could just tell him, you don't feel like to fall in love with anyone right now.
You just want to focus on work/ study for yourself.
And he should do the same.
2013-03-12 17:38:29 補充：
You can give him mentally support, so can he.
However, just as a friend.
Besides, you could also reduce the times of skype / chatting (face to face)
once a man falls for you, it's hard to reject him...
no matter is he a foreigner or not
but you can just be pen pal with him
- 5 年前
如果是真的 不會在網路上 能考上醫生的家境都不錯 不論外國國內
- 銘棋Lv 58 年前